HE SAYS HE WILL ARRIVE THIT EVENING. NO TIME, NO INDICATION WHAT SO EVER. HE JUST SAYS TO BE PREPARED. TO PUT MYSELF ON MY BED. OR ON A CHAIR. OR ANYWHERE ELSE WHERE I CAN TIE MY HANDS. WITH A ROPE. OR WITH THE HANDCUFFS HE BROUGHT THAT OTHER DAY. TO PUT ON A HARNESS. AND A LEATHER JOCK. AND, MOST IMPORTANTLY, PUT ON A BLINDFOLD. AND I DO BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT HE WANTS. I DO AND WAIT UNTIL I HEAR HIS KEY OPENING THE DOOR. AND THEN I WAIT SOME MORE.
The excitement – the thrill – of bondage and discipline, domination and submission. It is not for everyone. But it is certainly something everyone should try. If only once. There is nothing dirty about it. Nothing shameful. It’s a game of power and lust. And a matter of absolute trust. It is not a fantasy written in a novel. It is very real and happens much more than you can imagine. Your colleague. Your boss. Your closest friend. Anyone you know might be involved in it without you knowing it. Are you ready to try?
Sexual needs and interests change while we grow older and get more experienced. Curiosity about the unlimited possibilities of how to find pleasure often wins from vanilla practices. Sometimes we don’t even know what we like. Or more importantly, what our partner likes. BDSM is the best example. No one likes to admit he likes to be dominated. Or dominate. These are not socially accepted norms. But they are human emotions and it doesn’t matter whether you are an office clerk, a school teacher or the CEO of a multinational, we can all experience these sensations. And when played out with the right partner, it can enrich your sex life to new heights. A Dom is intoxicated by someone who is willing to trust him or her that much. A sub is intoxicated by the surrender — and not because he or she is weak. A sub is willing to go to a place many people do not, or cannot, go. The physical pain is just a small part of it. And surviving it, enduring it, is a feat.
Facu Mart* is an Argentine model who resides these days in Barcelona. He met photographer Jorge Pereira back in 2015 and has since then worked with him on several occasions. One of the first shoot they collaborated on displayed Facu as a Spanish torero. Half naked, draped only in a matador jacket and a bright colored capote brega. A symbol of power, of absolute dominance over an animal as brute and powerful as a Spanish bull. But Facu has a very different side as well. Obedient. Submissive. Willing to subject his body and his needs to a partner who wants to posses him. To serve in every possible way in order to give – but also receive – the ultimate pleasure. To be tight and blindfolded, waiting in the dark not knowing how much time passes before you hear his footsteps coming nearer and a his voice asking you: What should I do to you for making me wait? And all you can answer is: Anything you want. –BM-
*Facu Mart is an architect and real estate agent and highly successful photo model. The above story, except for the part of the collaboration with Jorge Pereira, and the photos shot by Jorge Pereira are fictional.
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